Is it wrong that i cant be her friend anymore? and that i lost respect for her?

My best friend and i have known each other for four years. We have been through it all been intimate and been through best and worse times. It is long distance but when we had a falling out she mention she would not date me because iam not older then her, iam not jewish and i tell her too much of how i feel about her. Truth it was not all the time i was just excited but instead she says while she knows iam tough and knows i handle my business as a man she said me sharing and that i talk alot sometimes made her feel like it was a role reversal. That we would be on the phone too long but i dont know hearing that yet in the same sentence her saying iam a tough strong guy made me just lose so much respect for her. I havent spoken to her since saturday and this is the longest time that i have voluntairly without any fights or us traveling and be busy that we havent spoken. I dont want to honestly i just lost alot of respect for her.