Am I waisting my life with this person?

I'm very sorry to hear this. =( Having babies is a huge deal in relationships, and I'd say that if he does not want children and you desperately do, you are better off finding someone who is on the same page as you. 10 years is a very long time, so please do not rush into anything. It would be sad if you had a child with someone who ended up being just a rebound. Goodluck